Frequently hear yourself saying ‘I always let other’s take advantage of me’ but …

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♦️Frequently hear yourself saying ‘I always let other’s take advantage of me’ but never been able to stop it from happening or know where to start?♦️
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Well I’m here to bring to you the ultimate guide to SETTING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES.
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In my coaching practice I’ve witnessed individuals who’ve called themselves a ‘walkover’ and left as healthy, well-developed individuals by then end of their program.
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Why? Because they came to realize that ultimately what matters is that they, themselves approve of their choices.
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Most of us have some work to do before we get to that point, and to stop seeking approval of others. Trust me, I know this from personal experience.
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When we constantly aim to please others, we’re seeking approval of self from outside sources. And whenever we reach for something in the outside world to give us what we should be giving ourselves, we set ourselves up for disappointment.
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We set ourselves up to live a life we don’t particularly want but will fit with what other people expect of us. And we don’t want to take a chance on something that may bring on a disapproving comment or even a look!
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We do what’s expected of us.
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We do what others want for us, and from us.
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And in return, we get their approval.
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You might be thinking – what’s wrong with seeking approval?
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Thing is when we seek others’ approval, we miss opportunities to learn how to approve of ourselves – even if others don’t.
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The hardest part about setting boundaries with people, no matter who they are – is not feeling confident in our ability to do so.
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Once we realize that setting boundaries is necessary for healthy relationships, we’ll feel better defining them & ultimately sticking to them!
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I really believe we have to be able to set boundaries, otherwise the rest of the world is telling us who we are, and what we should be doing.
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There’s a FREE 10-minute mini class included in my MINDSET MASTERY series that covers why we let other’s & sometimes even ourselves get away with causing us harm. We have to learn what we need to do to stop that from happening.
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Remember, you can still be a nice person & set boundaries!
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