Relationships have a way of altering our vision. We go in expecting our mate to fulfill our hopes and to make us happy. But this is an impossible order for them to fill. Unrealistic expectations breed disappointment. The higher your expectations, the more likely your loved one will fail you and cause you frustration.
Divorce and cancelled weddings are nearly inevitable when people refuse to allow their spouses or loved ones to be human. So there needs to be a transition in your thinking. You must choose to live by encouragement rather than by expectations. The way your loved one has been for the last ten years is likely what she will be in the future apart from your loving encouragement and an intervention from God. Love puts the focus on personal responsibility and improving yourself rather than on demanding more from others.
Today’s Dare
Eliminate the poison of unrealistic expectations in your home. Think of one area where your spouse has told you you’re expecting too much, and tell them you’re sorry for being so hard on them about it. Promise them you’ll seek to understand, and assure them of your unconditional love.
Let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds. (Hebrews 10:24)
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