If only we can get to a place in dating where more people took responsibility fo…

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💯If only we can get to a place in dating where more people took responsibility for their behaviors and personality! ⠀
Imagine how much less drama there would be! ⠀
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Including how many people are dismissed from being “datable” because of their sign or heritage. As if they don’t have a choice for who they are! ⠀
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Here’s some common behaviors or personality excuses people use: ⠀
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1. “My sign is Scorpio so 🤷🏽‍♂️” ⠀
2. “Never date a “cancer” because they’re definitely…” ⠀
3. Latina women are all …” ⠀
4. “ I’m a Capricorn! What else did you expect?” ⠀
5. “Latinos all have tempers!”⠀
6. “This is just the way I am” ⠀
7. “Gemini’s don’t like getting to close and connected to people. They have a hard time opening up.” ⠀
8. “Virgo’s just have negative attitudes”⠀
9. Libra’s are absolute liars!” ⠀
10. “This is just how I grew up ok! It’s who I am” ⠀
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I’m definitely not against Zodiac signs, but I’m also definitely not for putting all people into a box as if they’re predestined to be a certain way. ⠀
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I’m absolutely for for embracing your nationality and culture. However, I’m definitely not for using culture and race as a reason for bad decisions, or bad behaviors. ⠀
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Why? ⠀
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The simple reason is because of one word…⠀
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CHOICE⠀
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The moment we claim our affinity and actions to an outside source other than ourselves, we also take away the logic of free choice and accountability. ⠀
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Choice will always proceed your Zodiac sign or nationality! 💯⠀
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Imagine how this could change the dating game, the drama of it, if more people accepted responsibility for their behaviors.⠀
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It’s only once responsibility is accepted can anyone really change for the better! ⠀
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What are your thoughts? ⠀
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@the_date_dr
@iam.neilsocarras

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