Let me tell you a story. Some years back, I met a guy online and we had a deep …

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Let me tell you a story.

Some years back, I met a guy online and we had a deep connection. He had similar values, saw many things the same way, wanted the same things out of life and even had similar personalities; my doppelganger practically.

As expected, homegirl was certain he was the one. I mean, I was not alone, even my friends thought I had found ‘the one’. We spoke almost every day for hours and I was always blushing during our conversations. I was happy and thought it was the beginning of forever.

Boy, was I wrong?

One day, after a usual beautiful conversation, I was so overwhelmed with my feelings for him, so I told him I loved him.

Well, guess what? He didn’t say it back and he never mentioned it again, completely ignored it.

Honestly, I don’t think I can explain how I felt enough for you to understand. You need to have felt the same way to get what I am saying but you know how romance novels describe heartbreak as feeling like a rock was placed on one’s heart.

That was exactly how I felt.

I felt terrible.

But I am more logical a person than I am emotional; so I got over it quicker than most people would. And I did not hold it against him; he just didn’t feel the same way about me as I felt about him … it happens. I understand.

But it made me wary. I didn’t want to fall into that trap of thinking a guy was in love with me when he was only “in like” with me. I definitely was sure the aforementioned guy was in love with me but I had to be honest with myself and agree that he only wanted friendship and nothing more. I was the one designing wedding gowns in my head and seeing babies.

I am sure many people can relate; both men and women. And this is the time I am supposed to throw in a wise insight on how to find out they simply like you but do not love you.

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