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✨ Is this person good for me ✨
I get asked this question alot and yet it’s something so obvious that most of us ignore the answers to even though it’s on display to us day in, day out •
If you are having doubts, and/or dealing with someone in your life and you are wondering if this person is good for you, or if they’re the one you should be investing your time into etc… Then ask yourself this “Is this person a reflection of the value i have for myself?”… Always take note of what ‘value’ is being reflected to you OF you. The person we date is a reflection of our own individual state of being, which has manifested as this person in front of you. So always always always go off what values or standards they have as an individual first, to see if it’s a match to the ones you have of yourself. If it is, then perfect, you’re being represented by someone that shows you value yourself and have certain standards, but most importantly it shows they’ll add value to your life aswell 🌷
Listen to the words they use when they talk. Are they positive ones. Are they negative ones. Ask them about another person, and watch their response- do they talk badly about them or do they speak kindly of them. Be mindful of how your body reacts when in their presence. Do you feel overjoyed and you can’t explain how you feel because you instantly feel so happy (the best feeling ☺️). Or do you feel like cringing inside and like you just shouldn’t be engaging with this energy. It’s all there, you just need to pay attention to it 🔮
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