At the beginning of relationships, in the heat of infatuation, it’s not uncommon…

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At the beginning of relationships, in the heat of infatuation, it’s not uncommon to often feel like you can’t get enough of the other person.⁠⠀
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Hanging out with anyone else, besides your partner, isn’t nearly as interesting as doing even the most mundane things with your new love – like hanging the laundry or doing your mid-week shop for washing up liquid and sliced bread.⁠⠀
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The problem with this is that when you spend all your time with your partner – over time, you fuse together so much that you end up squashing the space between you.⁠⠀
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The space where sexual desire occurs.⁠⠀
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As psychotherapist @estherperelofficial puts it – fire needs air – so don’t squash the space.⁠⠀
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To be close, yet feel like you want your partner sexually, it’s important to cultivate your own identity. Because if you don’t know where you stop and the other starts – it might be difficult to get turned on.⁠⠀
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Let me know how you’re keeping space in your relationship for your own identity.⁠⠀
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